Couldn’t miss posting the annual Father’s Day photo. Especially since it will be the last one of its kind. I love this sweet tradition. Now that it’s no longer a major stress event.
In the strangest, saddest ending that ever was, all my babies are done with elementary school. I picked up Hadley’s bagged items from the silent building last week. The PTA provided a pretty sweet care pack for fifth graders at least. And then we drove our dirty country car through the clap out parade and that was that. Hadley said she wasn’t sad one bit to leave that place behind. But I had a few tearful moments, truth be told.
We finally cut Jim’s hair. And I’ve been making personal menus, then taking pictures of my food. Also, margaritas. I told the kids I’m ready for my own TikTok channel and nothing on earth could amuse them more.
Also we took stock; there has not been one day in the last 90+ where we have needed something we have not had.
I asked Jim to take this picture because it’s very clear it’s the last Mother’s Day I will be taller than my kids.
On this 50th-ish day of our quarantine we played a card game called Golf. We played Mario Kart. We went to online church. Jim made me my requested meal of vegan tostadas, nachos, and margaritas (all amazing). We took a family walk. And I got a new bird feeder plus an upgraded premium subscription to Birds and Blooms! I’ll take it.
Hadley had her birthday party in the dreaded quarantine. Every guest she invited showed up. Most of them danced. Somehow they even traded sweet gifts for their porch-delivered goody bags. It was somewhat magical. I am conflicted in my happiness that they all had a pretty darn good time in a completely virtual experience. But above all, I’m very grateful to have witnessed Hadley’s very mature hostessing skills in action, paired with some adorable behind-the-scenes pleading for me to dance with her.
During this quarantine, it’s been almost impossible to find a place of your own. A weird conflict of ideas if ever there was one. So, how delightful the day to just walk around a lovely and desolate place behind our new property and dream of the future for a bit.
I’ve also been astounded as I’ve taken a minute to review the last six weeks to recognize: our kids have done MANY admirably creative things. Just today Hadley decided to create a slideshow of vacation spots with interesting facts (and even airplane ride intermission slides complete with tickets. AND props for each destination like shell necklaces, sunglasses and winter coats!)
Bastien has cultivated friendships with three new school friends with whom he spends hours every day planning, Minecrafting, and talking on his headset. I never thought this kind of thing would make me happy, but honestly at this moment it makes me ecstatic. He is connecting daily with like-minded kids for the first time in his life.
Lastly, Jim and I were taking stock of our groceries and realized it’s been two weeks again since his last shopping trip. We couldn’t believe two weeks have already flown by. I am completely grateful for our contented state of hearts.